Water softeners remove the calcium and magnesium buildup in your water with basic chemistry and some occasional maintenance
Water softeners cost between $200 and $6,000 to install.
A water softener removes minerals like calcium and magnesium from hard water.
Sodium or potassium replace calcium and magnesium for softer water.
Water softeners must recharge to remove hard mineral deposits.
The average life span of a water softener is 15 years.
Stubborn white spots on your dishes, stiff and dry hair, and that unsightly buildup on the end of your showerhead—all of these are common signs of the dreaded hard water. Water softeners have the ability to transform your home, affecting everything from the longevity of your appliances to the coziness of your favorite fall sweater. But how exactly does a water softener work, and how do you keep it running smoothly?
A water softener is an appliance that replaces the high levels of calcium and magnesium in water with "softer" minerals like potassium or sodium. Water softener installation typically costs between $200 and $6,000 depending on the type and size you choose.
The most common water softener features either one or two tanks and attaches to your main water source, either in the basement or just outside your house.
Through a bit of complex science that we'll jump into below, the soft water system pulls the hard minerals out of the water and replaces them with the softer ones before sending them on their merry way to the water heater and your pipes.
Let's go on a journey with your home's water through a typical salt-based softener. When the water first enters your home, it makes a pit stop through a tank filled with negatively charged plastic resin beads. These beads are covered in positively charged sodium ions, or potassium in the case of a potassium water softener.
Since we all know that opposites attract, here's where things get clever. The negative beads attract positively charged magnesium and calcium passing by in the water. Sodium ions then switch out with the hard minerals and release into the water to balance the positive charge. In other words, calcium and magnesium stay in the tank, while sodium and potassium carry on.
On a regular basis—typically during a time of low water use—the brine tank will flush the beads with salt water, taking the magnesium and calcium with it down the drain. This also replaces the beads with sodium ions to start the process over.
You'll find several variations of water softeners, both in size and the type of science they use to bump out those pesky hard minerals. Here are the most common water softener types:
Single-tank water softeners: One resin tank goes alongside one brine tank that stores salt for flushing out the resin tank.
Dual-tank water softeners: Two tanks allow the salt-based water softener system to replenish itself without interrupting the flow of soft water to your home.
Salt-free water softeners: Potassium chloride works to remove hard minerals instead of sodium, meaning you don't have to replenish the salt. The system works the same way as the sodium softener but with potassium instead.
Water conditioners: These conditioners descale water, instead of simply removing hardening minerals, to protect against appliance and pipe buildup. While they do not technically count as a water softener, they tend to soften it in the process anyway.
The water softener regeneration process, also called the water softener recharge cycle, is a four-stage or five-stage process that removes hard minerals from the resin tank and replaces calcium and magnesium ions with either sodium or potassium chloride. Let's break down the regeneration process for water softeners.
Over time, your water softener’s resin beads become so full of minerals that the system can’t function well. This is when the minerals must be flushed through a drain line. Backwashing is the process of flushing out debris in your water softener to remove hard minerals and prepare the resin bed for cleaning.
After the calcium, magnesium, and any other particles have been removed from the resin tank, it’s time to pass the salt. A separate tank called the brine tank releases a brine solution containing sodium chloride into the resin tank. Brine serves as a cleaning agent by entering through the brine valve and flushing minerals down the drain.
Swimming in saltwater might be relaxing and enjoyable, but unless you’re a fish, you probably don’t want to drink salt water. That’s where the fast rinse stage comes into play. A quick flow of water rushes through the resin tank to flush out the brine and any remaining minerals from the resin beads.
Not all water softeners have this feature, but some of the more thorough systems have an additional backwash system called the slow rinse cycle. In this cycle, your resin bed receives an extra rinse for good measure. This helps restore the resin beads to the proper alignment.
Lastly, the water softener returns water to the brine tank where it mixes with salt to prepare for the next regeneration cycle. Most water softener systems recharge anywhere from once a day to once every two weeks.
Every model of water softener will come with unique instructions on how to keep it running nicely. Salt-based softeners require ongoing salt replacement, typically on a quarterly basis or every two months depending on the size and model of the system, how much water you use, and the hardness of your water.
On occasion, you may need to call a water softener specialist to take a look if:
There are signs of hard water on your skin, clothing, dishes, or appliances.
Your hot water heater and appliances are not running as efficiently.
You've discovered buildup forming again on your faucets or showerhead.
In these cases, your water softener could be low on salt. It may also be having issues regularly replenishing itself or even have a leak. Water softener repairs typically cost anywhere between $150 and $975, but some more extensive repairs can cost upwards of $2,500.
For a set-it-and-forget-it maintenance method, many experts encourage scheduling regular check-ins with your water softener pro. Companies may offer bi-monthly or quarterly visits for a flat rate each year to make sure everything is working well.
Water softeners can prolong the life of your appliances and even improve overall performance.
Your skin and hair may feel a bit softer, your sheets much cozier to the touch, and your water a bit warmer. The investment and basic upkeep are all it takes to keep your water running as smoothly as possible.
The main downsides to a water softener are the high upfront costs, the maintenance costs, the extra expense of needing to install a drain line if you don’t already have an accessible drain for the system, and the removal of beneficial minerals like magnesium and calcium for those deficient in those minerals. Additionally, the use of brine to clean your water softener also increases your sodium consumption, which may be an issue for those with high blood pressure.
Yes, softened water is safe to drink, but it’s best to drink it in moderation—especially if your water hardness is high and requires lots of sodium to successfully remove hard minerals from your drinking water. Still, if you’re hoping to have tasty water, you may not enjoy the taste of filtered water that contains traces of sodium and lacks the minerals present in standard water.
Water softener life spans range from 10 to 25 years, with most lasting around 15 years on average. After the 10-year mark, you may see your softener’s performance diminish as it progresses in age. Proper water softener maintenance can impact how long your water softener lasts. Likewise, a home with very hard water or a high demand will put more demand on your softener, which in turn shortens its life span.
