This was a letter I wrote but never sent. Now I see it was necessary to keep it. Please read [Member name removed], Let me first say that I have never had to refuse to speak with a customer in my whole career. My mindset when I entered into this contract with you, was that you are a friend and therefore would get the "friend" price, which is usually 10%. Further, I entered knowing that there were going to be certain things along the way that I would be willing to handle without charge in an effort to give you additional benefits, including before we ever started, to offer to spread out payments to make you feel comfortable at a time when my family was in need. I put your needs and comfort ahead of my own family's. I was not, however, prepared for you to question my character and integrity over and over by accusing me of cutting corners, using the wrong materials, and doing shoddy work. The constant snide remarks you leave by text are not appreciated, as for every issue there has been a simple answer. You may not have liked the answer or the process, but I have answered every one. I told you when we started, that there would be problems along the way, as there always is, and that the difference in having me do your job is that I would be there to handle any unforeseen issues. I was not, however, prepared for you to self-destruct your own project. I realize that you said to me that "you don't know what you don't know", and I have taken that into consideration in answering your snide accusations by taking a step back and calming down before answering you in a courteous and professional way. I just don't understand why you insist on thinking that I'm intent on screwing you when I have shown nothing but the opposite, that I have the dedication, patience, and integrity to see the project through to the end and accomplish what we set out to do at the beginning. It's for these reasons I had to ask Bryan that you not contact me, and that I have "de-friended" you on facebook, however important that may be. I need space and time to complete what I need to do without interference, and I don't appreciate the scowls you give Veronica at the dojang. You asked me when this started to not bring our work into the dojang, so DON'T. I have followed your wishes and expect you to do the same. As for how frustrating this whole process has been for you. I have addressed this with you in the most apologetic manner I could at every turn, because I DO realize that you and your family have to live with it every day. We started in mid October and you have had a functioning kitchen since just before Thanksgiving. Which was a feat given the changes you made without contacting me. Yes, I'm talking about the floor. When you, Diane, and me sat to chose colors for everything, we were all agreed. Being friends, I didn't see the need to document every little decision. My mistake. If I had known you would be picking apart my contract to see how you could take advantage of me, I would have walked around with a stack of change orders. The board you asked Tony to replace was unnecessary given the color the floor was supposed to be. No matter, as is proper procedure, Tony removed the board and replaced it with one that he could not have known had a defect. In attempting to fix the issue using the proper procedures, it has become apparent that the board needs to come out, which we have been willing to do at all times. The morning the floor was to be finished, you changed your mind on the color. Tony had a certain amount of time to complete your work and attempted to assist you in choosing a new color. He laid out 12 different colors and you chose a second time. The proper choice would have been to call me and we would have gone over things again before it cost tons of money to fix. If you felt pressured then you should have called me. It was the only day in 5 weeks that I wasn't on the jobsite because I had a meeting with my accountant. This one bad decision on your part has led to an extreme loss in the case of all involved but you. I never asked you for a dime in fixing this, yet Tony has lost 6 man days, which I have to compensate him for, I have an additional $622 in materials (stain, sanding discs and belts, etc.), and the floor has now been refinished 3 times. The reason the floor is still not fixed is because the second day that I was not on the job, the appliance company put two dents in the floor and I have been fighting with them ever since to cover the cost of the repairs. A fight that I took up to spare you from the hassle, as your contract for your appliances was with them, not me. Also I thought it best that the floor get repaired only one more time and my coordinating things to happen at the same time would be the best decision for all involved, as you wouldn't have to have your kitchen torn up 2 times. I kept you informed of the progress, or lack thereof, all the way through. I might add that I prepared for them to install by providing the masonite that would have kept the damages from happening, which is why they are covering the cost of the repairs in the first place. When we were going through removing wallpaper, intercom boxes, and painting, you asked for us to do extra work. As a friend, I didn't ask you to sign a change order, thinking you would honor your request. It was faster and easier for us to do the work in conjunction with the work being done. This cost me an extra $1,700, some of which you decided not to pay for by picking apart my contract. Other unforeseen items that occurred during preparation of the floors were the floor leveling that needed to be done before the tile in the bathroom was set. This was the right thing to do and you were told it would cost extra, which you decided not to pay for. In removing the tile floor in the kitchen/hallway/foyer, we could not foresee the installation process of the tile and removing in cost us an extra 3 man days. Again, a cost I did not ask you to meet. When Mike was installing the faucet and plumbing, he noticed that the drain baskets it came with looked cheesy, and offered to replace them with brushed nickel, to which you agreed. He paid for them on his own and installed them free of charge because he thought it was the right thing to do. Then you accused him of NOT installing the right ones, to which I had to show you the receipts in order to prove that we had indeed installed the correct ones. Mike did not appreciate having to go through the extra cost and hassle and then be accused of not doing it. When it came to the paint, you told me not to worry about a couple of things, and it was I who insisted that things be done fully and to the best of our ability. I had Jason come back and complete everything. As for the length of the project, certain products are just not as available as you would like them to be. You insisted on having the glass tile, which we could get in a different style but the same color. No matter, I informed you that if you were ok waiting for the tile, I was ok with doing the work when it came in. You insisted on having the light fixture for the bathroom, which was also on backorder, to which I said the same thing. As for the backsplash. The Tile Shop was to blame for mismarking their sample tile, and though they covered the cost of the replacement tile, they didn't cover any of the installation. That being said, Mike was there laying tile on Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday, with the first of it being laid directly on the countertop where the contrast in colors would have been mostly easily noticed. You didn't notify me until Friday evening at 7PM that it was wrong. Purposely I have now come to believe, so that it would cost more for me to repair it. Why would you not notify me the color was wrong on Wednesday, when you had the original sample right there to compare it to? Mike would not know one way or the other as he is only paid to install what we give him. This lack of contact cost me $750 for Mike to remove and replace the field tile, plus $15 for the extra drywall and mud. The layout problem we had we would have corrected regardless. You then accused me of breaking your light switch and painting the top of the tile instead of installing bullnose, snide remarks included. It's clear you don't think much of me or my workers. It seems you are looking for a reason to complain about something while alienating all of my workers. There is a reason that Mike installed the light in the bathroom and took care of the final coverplate installation. My electrician won't come back. In fixing your toilet, Mike found that the flange was completely broken. We would not have installed a toilet on a broken flange. How did it break? I don't know, but Mike fixed it at no extra cost to you. You would have paid a plumber $200 or more to repair that. My people are dedicated to me and that's the only reason your project has been seen through to this point. Yet you continue to accuse us of trying to pass of subpar work, when I have proven that you are wrong. You try to do your work while someone is harassing you and trying to sabotage your work. You have a beautiful kitchen in spite of the obstacles you have put in my way. Total cost of the discounts and extra costs you have incurred: $5,885 - "Friend discount" $572 - extras you decided not to pay for $765 - not contacting me early about wrong tile $4,222 - man hours and materials for changing floor color $????? - little things along the way I forgot about but just did So before you tell me how I screwed you, take a $11,444 bath and then see how I feel.