3 Out of 5 People Are Stressed Out by Messy Homes [Survey]

Find out which messes create the most stress at home and more in our stress cleaning survey

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Bohemian living room interior
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Caroline Gilbert
Written by Caroline Gilbert
Director, Content & Editorial, Angi
Updated March 25, 2022
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After spending so much time at home, have we finally found the secret to loving cleaning? Not quite. 

A 2021 survey by the American Cleaning Institute found that 55% of people have been cleaning and organizing more than usual due to the COVID-19 pandemic. For some, that’s a necessity. When we’re home more often, homes get messy. For others, the act of cleaning can help clear the mind during a stressful time. 

We wanted to know: How many people are stress cleaning? And what types of messes cause all that stress in the first place? We surveyed over 1,500 Americans ages 18 to 65-plus to find out. 

Key Findings

  • Over half of people are stressed out by messy homes.

  • 69% of Americans say they don’t clean to relieve stress.

  • 28% said clutter is the most stressful household mess.

  • Over a quarter find cleaning the bathroom the most annoying chore.

Read on to find out more, along with some tips for more mindful cleaning practices. 

69% People Don’t Clean to Relieve Stress

We asked 1,500 Americans if they clean to relieve stress. Only 31% of people said they do. The 69% majority said they don’t clean to deal with stress.

2 in 3 people don't clean to relieve stress
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This is surprising given the benefits of stress cleaning. According to an article for the HuffPost, psychologists explain that cleaning feels good because it provides a sense of control over your environment. Repetitive tasks, like sweeping or washing dishes, self-soothe and clear the mind. Plus, there’s a feeling of accomplishment once it’s done.

Yet if there are so many advantages of stress cleaning, why do over two-thirds of people report that they don’t do it? 

While people might enjoy some of the calming side effects when they clean, it seems most don’t wipe, dust, or scrub away their stress. When it comes to stress relief, people may be more likely to turn to other coping methods, such as exercising, yoga, or meditation.

That said, most Americans might be missing out on the mindful benefits of cleaning.

Messy Homes Cause Stress

Despite the majority of people rejecting cleaning as a stress reliever, nearly three in five reported that a messy home stresses them out.

58% of people said that having a messy home makes them feel stressed
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Perhaps most people prefer to get cleaning done as fast as possible to avoid that build-up of mess, without taking the time to enjoy the act of cleaning itself.

A Messy Home Stresses Out Women Most

Of those who said a messy home stresses them out, most were women (59%). Men aren’t quite as worried about untidiness, with 40% of “yes” respondents being male.

Clutter Stresses People Out the Most

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So, messes in the house are stressing people out. The most anxiety-inducing mess of all? Clutter. 

Twenty-eight percent of people identified clutter as the mess that makes them most stressed or anxious. Clutter is often cited as a stress-inducer, since an untidy accumulation of stuff can overwhelm your space. 

Clutter can increase irritability, add tension, and affect the ability to focus. A study in the Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin found that women who described their homes as cluttered had higher levels of the stress hormone cortisol. Women who described their homes as tidy and restorative were less stressed. 

Marie Kondo’s popular KonMari Method of tidying has shown us how valuable it can be to declutter. If you’re part of the 28% who finds clutter the most stressful mess in your home, it might be time to ditch unnecessary belongings and restore order to your space. 

Other stressful messes that respondents identified were a sink full of dishes (22%), a messy kitchen (18%), and a dirty bathroom (16%).

28% of Americans are stressed out by clutter in their home
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Men and women tended to mostly agree on the most stressful household messes. However, interestingly, a sink of dishes stressed out more men (58%) than women (42%). For men, clutter only barely beats out a sink of full dishes for the most stressful chore.

Over a Quarter of People Are Most Annoyed by Cleaning the Bathroom

With disarray weighing on your shoulders, cleaning can feel like an irritating obligation to keep messes at bay. When asked to identify the chore they find the most annoying to do, 26% of people chose cleaning the bathroom.

26% of Americans find cleaning the bathroom the most annoying home chore to complete
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It’s unsurprising that most people find scrubbing the toilet less than desirable. However, dusting was also a high contender, with 22% rating it as the most annoying chore. It can certainly be irksome to reach each corner of every shelf and cabinet to wipe away accumulating dust. 

It’s possible that stressful clutter and annoying chores like scrubbing the toilet and dusting the shelves are holding people back from enjoying cleaning. 

Cleaning the kitchen sat at the very bottom of the list, with only 6% rating it as the most annoying chore. It seems most people don’t mind wiping the countertops and cleaning out the fridge.

Taking the Stress Out of Stress Cleaning

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When it comes to mess and chores, it sounds like stress all around. However, there are many ways to make cleaning more enjoyable.

You can enlist the help of a professional cleaning company to take much of the scrubbing and vacuuming off your plate. You can also work with a professional home organizing company to turn seemingly unmanageable clutter into a highly organized system. Both can give you relief from untidy stuff taking over your living space.

You can also break up a large task into manageable chunks with a house cleaning checklist

You can even turn cleaning into a mindfulness activity. One study published in the Mindfulness journal found that, when people washing dishes focused on the task at hand by thinking about the smell of the soap and the temperature of the water, the activity actually increased positive feelings and decreased nervousness. 

To help you reap all the stress cleaning benefits, we’ve compiled some tips for more mindful cleaning in the infographic below. Hopefully, these strategies will make cleaning the bathroom a tad less annoying.

Mindful Cleaning Infographic

tips for mindful cleaning to benefit your home and mood: declutter your mind, cleanse with calmness, wash off your worries, mop up uncertainty
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Methodology

This study was conducted for Angi using Google Surveys. The sample consisted of no less than 1,500 completed responses per question. Post-stratification weighting has been applied to ensure an accurate and reliable representation of the total population. Responses were collected in August 2021.

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Caroline Gilbert
Written by Caroline Gilbert
Director, Content & Editorial, Angi
Caroline Gilbert is the Director of Content & Editorial at Angi. She has over ten years of experience writing about the home, with published work in Real Simple and Virginia Living Magazine.
Caroline Gilbert is the Director of Content & Editorial at Angi. She has over ten years of experience writing about the home, with published work in Real Simple and Virginia Living Magazine.
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